Like many who are overweight, obese or morbidly obese (what a dreadful
term!), I have spent a lot of time over the years thinking – dreaming really,
about my goal weight. I think this may be especially true of those of us who
have finally found a way to lose weight without hunger and now see the pounds
dropping off easily. And they are fat pounds, because we have become “fat burners,”
through ketosis, enabling us to burn fat for energy by severely restricting our
carbohydrate intake. We are always wondering, How far can I go? How far do I really
want to go? How thin could I be?
The “experts”
tell us not to be too ambitious – to set modest goals, because they know how
common it is to fail. They say that even a 10% (or less) weight loss will make
a big difference in our health markers, especially for Cardiovascular Disease
(CVD). But we can dream, can’t we? We can imagine ourselves as much thinner (if
we are more than 10% “overweight,” as many of us now are). As I was seeing two
pounds of fat dissolve a week for about a year (about 5 years ago), I imagined
that I could be just 187 pounds – half my starting weight of 375 pounds. At my
low point I had lost 170 pounds (45% of me), and was just 17 pounds shy of my
goal when, on a 3-week vacation, I stopped losing.
Today, after
regaining 70 pounds over the last four years, I am starting to lose again. As of
this posting I have re-lost 30 pounds (60%) of the 50 I am targeting towards my
new goal of 225 pounds. That will represent a loss of 150 pounds (40%) from the
start. That weight, 225 lbs, is my new goal weight – the one I will strive to
maintain for the rest of my life.
But what do all
these numbers mean? My wife told me I would look like a scarecrow if I had lost
all 187 pounds. A neighbor who saw me on the street when I was near my low of
205 said, “Are you okay? Are you well?” Funny! Maybe I wouldn’t recognize
myself, had I gotten there. Who knows? I certainly would have been a different
man – just half the man I used to be, my wife used to joke. And at 225 I will
still be clinically classified as obese. But I’ll be happy, for a time.
Goal weight is a very subjective
thing. It is purely personal. My present goal is to lose 50 pounds in two
stages. I started at 275 and want to get to 225. The first stage, which I
started last September, was to lose 25 pounds by year’s end, then 25 more
before my next doctor’s appointment in late-April. So the first part required
that I persevere through the Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays. I reached the
first goal, on January 3rd, a few days late.
The second 25
pounds has to be lost while we are at our winter home in Florida, and includes
a week-long vacation in Aruba. I’ve never lost weight, or even been able to
maintain my weight, in Florida or on
vacation, when we eat out (and drink) every night. But the trip to Aruba is now
history – and I made history. I went there at 250 and came home at 250! Now,
the challenge is to lose 25 pounds in the next 13 weeks. That’s very doable;
just 2 pounds a week. I’ve done it before, many times. The question is: Will I do
it in Florida? Will I make history again? I’ll let you know – end of April.
Ideal weight is a total other
thing. It is also very subjective, if a bit more impersonal. What I call my body type (“big boned”) might
actually just be my body image from having lived a lifetime looking at it. Why
else would there be just one clinical standard in the U.S. (since 1998) for
judging weight? It is universal and requires only height and weight and is, in
my subjective opinion, totally unrealistic. I am referring, of course, to the
Body Mass Index (BMI) table, linked here. In
it a person (male or female of any “body type” who is now 5’-11” tall should
weigh between 136 and 172 to be considered “normal “weight. The average “normal
weight for a person my height would be 150 pounds. That’s ridiculous. It’s
skeletal, a mere scarecrow. My father told me he weighed 150 in the Great
Depression, and again when he was diagnosed with TB in 1950. After a nine-month
stay in hospital put a little flesh on his bones, he weighed 175!
So, my goal
weight of 225 pounds is still much higher than my ideal weight. It is in fact
75 pounds higher. It is higher even than the BMI scale range (179 to 208)
allows for me to be considered “overweight.” In fact, 225 pounds is still
considered “obese” for a 5’ – 11” person. The “obese” range is 215 to 279. But
that’s okay. It’s my goal
weight.
Lean Body Weight is another term
that is sometimes used by athletes (and thin people) with only a small amount
of body fat. To me it is a foreign concept, an exotic species. It is achievable, no doubt, and the most
desirable weight to be, if you have the physique ,the genetic predisposition
and a history of eating right and staying “trim.” It is also a very useful
weight to use when deciding how much protein to eat to avoid unwanted
gluconeogenesis if you are a Type 2 diabetic and are working to achieve optimal
glucose control and weight loss through diet. But that’s another story.
©
Dan Brown 1/26/13